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Thursday, 10 November 2016

On Abortion

Recently, abortion was a big issue in Poland and also in Korea.  Above all, the president-to-be of America promised that there should be some form of punishment for those women seeking abortion.  So, I feel like I need to write down my thoughts on abortion for my future reference because I may change my thoughts any time being human.  If you are going to read it, please read it through (the language may be coarse and harsh).

Am I Pro-Life?

Yes, I am pro-life.  I want to choose life always and any time when it is possible.  I think any life is given by God, thus sacred.  At the moment of conception (which is fertilised egg), it is human being though it does not look like a human yet.  Each and every life is special and precious to God.  And because of that, abortion is another name of murder.  I admit that I may think this way because I’ve been failing to have a baby in almost five years’ marriage.

Should we ban the abortion?

No, we should not.  Everybody has their own different stories.  No one can judge others unless you are know-it-all like God.  If I remember correct, there was an honour killing when I was in Canada.  A Muslim immigrant father killed his own high school daughter because she was raped and got pregnant.  If she could have gotten the abortion service easily (without letting her father know), she could have been living now.

In the ideal society, we may need abortion.  But it is not like that.  Any teen age single mother has great disadvantage for every single thing in every day of her life.  How can anyone can force her to tolerate and endure such a horrible and terrible life?

Should we punish the women?

What the FUCK are you talking about?  No woman goes for abortion for fun or pleasure.  They are desperate and heavy-hearted.  They need help, not punishment.  Whole society, whole nation, and whole universe must rise up and help her.

If you must punish someone, then go after the man behind the pregnant woman, and punish him.  As far as I know, there is only one Virgin Mary in the history.  Except her, all and every woman cannot get pregnant by herself.  Again, if you must punish someone, punish the careless dick-head guy.

It does not matter if it was rape, or unmarried lovers, or even if she is married and has her husband’s baby.  If the woman considers abortion, she is a victim.  What kind of savage society punishes the victim?  We must help her minimise the impact of abortion.

What should we do then?

First, we must improve the society and civilise ourselves so that there would be no need for abortion.  That includes educate men so that there would be no rape (even between married couple).  And that also includes the society does not discriminate single mother, instead let her many and great benefits so that she does not even need to consider abortion.

Second, we’d better make the abortion service available until the human society becomes ideal and utopic.  We must make the abortion service not just available but extremely easy to access and also highly confidential so that no one would know who got the consult or service.  This confidentiality is especially important when it comes to the family (more for male family members).  The service should be accessible through the internet, phone, text message, social media, in person, by mail and so on.

Third, we should form a special group (one big group for nationwide or each community can have their own) to think how and what can we do to help those women considering abortion and/or the ones who already had abortion.  The discussion must be in depth and detail because hundred women have thousand stories and situations.

Forth and last, we should change the culture so that we must be more strict to men and be fairer to women.  This society is too generous to the rapists and sexual offenders.  It is especially true when it comes to white young educated men such as Brock Turner.  He became free in just three months.  According to the statistics, sexual crime or rape has the highest repeat ratio among all crimes, it is even higher than drug and alcohol addiction.  I suggest that the law must enforce the punishment of cutting the penis.  Without penis, they cannot repeat it and I guess this is the only solution.

In this sexist country, women are often considered only as sexual objects, and that would lead our society  into more needs of abortion.  We need to change the culture and general conception.   We also stop blaming the rape victims.  The victims are blamed unfairly such as: “You were wearing sexy.” “You were drunk.” “You walked at late night.”  People must know all those don’t even make sense.  All people including women must be safe no matter what they wear.  All people including women must be safe no matter how much they are drunk.  All people including women must be safe 24-7.

Think you bought a new Tesla, the super hot  and super awesome electric car.  And you parked it on the driveway because you have another car in the garage.  And it was stolen.  You reported it to the police and they say, “What? You left it on the driveway?  Wow, you were asking the thieves to steal it!  It’s entirely your fault and we’re not gonna do anything.  Are you lunatic?  Tesla on the driveway? Jerk.”  This is the same situation when you blame a sexual victim.  If one woman gets raped, it is not her fault.  It is the rapist’s fault and we–the entire society–are all responsible.

Tuesday, 16 April 2013

What can we do for Minor Rapists?

Recently I had to face many sad news including North Korean threatening, Boston bombing, and a 17-year-old Canadian girl who killed herself after being raped. And yesterday, along with the bombing, I heard another news that a 15-year-old American girl also killed herself in San Jose, California.

According to what I’ve seen on TV news, she was raped when she was unconscious by three boys in a party, and they took the picture of raping (or assault) which eventually went viral. She found it out and killed herself.

I couldn’t believe my eyes and ears – the boys (also 15 years old then) not only raped, but also took and share the photo! Momentarily I was filled with anger and I said two things to my wife.

First, the government must cut penis of all rapists, plus let them spend their lives in prison.

Second, there should be NO distinguish between minor and adult crime when it comes to raping.

Personally, I think the US and Canada‘s crime penalties for minors are so generous which I believe is actually encouraging the teenagers to commit crimes. I strongly believe the justice system must go tougher for minors also.

I understand that the minors can make mistakes, so I agree the lighter punishment for them. But at least, when it comes to raping, there should be NO – NEVER – NO distinguish and/or difference between adult and minor.

The teenagers can rape because they know the consequence which is not much.

I also heard that the raping is the most re-occurring crime. So if the government wants to stop it, they should cut the penis of all rapists. Do you think it is too much? Just think or imagine your own wife or daughter was raped (and also suicided), then you wouldn’t think it is too much.

Raping is much worse than murdering! Cut the rapists’ penis!

북한의 위협과 보스턴의 폭탄 테러, 그리고 캐나다에서 17세 소녀가 강간 당한 뒤에 자살했다는 소식 등 최근에 참 슬픈 소식을 여럿 들었다. 그리고 어제, 폭탄 테러와 함께 캘리포니아의 산호세에서 15세 소녀가 강간 당한 뒤에 자살했다는 소식을 또 들었다.

테레비 뉴스에 따르면 파티에서 의식이 없을 때 남학생 세 명에게 강간을 당했는데, 강간당하는 사진을 찍었는데, 이게 인터넷에서 퍼졌다고 한다. 그리고 이를 나중에 발견한 소녀가 자살을 했다.

도저히 내 눈과 귀를 믿을 수가 없었다. 당시 15세였던 남학생들이 강간만 한 것이 아니라 사진까지 찍어서 공유를 하다니! 순간적으로 나는 분노에 휩싸여 아내에게 두 가지를 말했다.

먼저, 정부는 강간범의 자지를 모조리 자른 후에 평생 감옥에 살게 해야 한다.

그리고, 강간에 대해서는 어른과 미성년자 처벌에 차이를 두어서는 안된다.

개인적으로 미국과 캐나다의 미성년자 처벌이 너무 관대하다고 생각하는데, 결국은 청소년에게 범죄를 격려하는 꼴이 된다. 사법 시스템에 청소년에게도 좀 더 세게 나가야 한다고 강력히 생각한다.

청소년들이 실수를 할 수도 있다는 걸 이해하고, 처벌이 조금 가벼워야 한다는 것에도 동의한다. 하지만 적어도 강간에 대해서 만큼은 절대로 결단코 어른과 미성년자의 차등이 없어야 한다.

청소년들이 강간을 하는 이유는 어떤 처벌을 받을 지 알기 때문이다. 그러니까 별 처벌 안받는 다는 거.

또 듣기로는 강간이 가장 재발률이 높은 범죄라고 하는데, 만일 정부가 이를 막고자 한다면 강간범의 자지를 모두 잘라야 한다. 너무 심하다고? 당신의 아내와 딸이 강간 당했다고 (그리고 자살했다고) 상상해 보라. 그러면 이 게 너무 심한 게 아니라고 생각할 것이다.

강간은 살인보다 더 악랄한 범죄다! 강간범의 자지를 절단하라!

 

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